Notes from author
Toxic yourself before being invaded (or summoning somebody), and if they give you some moss, eat your blooming moss and give them a Pierce Shield.
If you summon a guy and he helps you fight off two dishonorable invaders, give him a speckled stoneplate ring.
If you summon a white who goes and clears a bunch of NPCs while you're standing around at the bonfire, and he comes back, give him a tiny being's ring.
If Sieglinde kills you, you have to delete this char. Try bribing any Sieglindes with Titanite Slabs.